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  • 03 Mar 2012 4:42 PM
    Reply # 846792 on 754781
    Waldemar
    I had two deliveries at a tirbhing center (a medium one, I'd say in terms of luxuries), associated with a hospital, attended by an MD (but a family practice MD, not OB). They were very satisfactory births. I felt properly respected by both nurses & doctors, comfortable in the room (though I would have liked a bigger bed, I'd consider that a luxury and not a necessity.). Definitely a pleasant, and not PTSD inducing experience for me. My setting was different from yours (a birth center) and I live in an area of the country where I've seen doctors who seem quite trained in respecting their patients in the touchy-feely way that isn't necessarily part of the historical MD interaction. My births did include a bunch of medical interventions, though (including epidurals, IV pitocin, heel pricks for my little ones -- medically justified, I think, though they didn't detect anything). So, it might not have satisfied others. But, my perception was that for those who wanted less medical births, there was support, and choice, that I wasn't pushed to choose the epidural or the pitocin, but those were my own choices. I think it's unlikely that MDs are going to be supporters of home birth -- it'd be interesting to hear from any who are. It's just too contrary to their interests (as you say, in general, they only see the problems with home births, not the good things).
  • 03 Mar 2012 5:34 PM
    Reply # 846823 on 713274
    Karen
    This is something I feel very sonsiapate about. I had my son at home and even though we had some complications I would do it all over again. And I would homebirth again if I ever had another child. The U.S. has a cesarean rate of something like 33% -- I think it is the highest in the world. But our infant mortality rate is ranks us #33. Both of these statistics lead me to believe that the way we nurture women through pregnancy and birth should be part of a national conversation that is geared towards bringing about change.
  • 03 Mar 2012 5:51 PM
    Reply # 846833 on 738764
    Juana
    I have three children. My first child was born at a btihirng center attended by my doctor (gen pract, but with an OB specialty) and a doula. Very nice, although the birth was so fast I never got to use the hot tub!My second was an even faster birth. She was supposed to be born at a different btihirng center (due to different insurance), but was actually born on the sidewalk outside the hospital. Hospital workers appeared magically, holding up sheets for some privacy. A blanket was laid under me. My doula was there. The head of pediatrics held my hand and kept up a stream of encouragement. The head labor nurse caught the baby. After I'd had a chance to greet her, she was whisked off to NICU for 2 hours observation (the worst part of the birth). They got me up onto a gurney to take into the hospital, and I got a standing ovation as they wheeled me through the lobby.My third was a planned homebirth. After my previous experience, I talked to my OB, who actually encouraged me to do a homebirth and gave me advice. I found a CNM and a new doula (first one had come out of retirement for my second birth). Baby 3 was even faster: she beat the midwife by 12 minutes.All three of my births have been good experiences, though very different. I would like to see more women have the choices I had been lucky to have living where I did.
  • 03 Mar 2012 8:38 PM
    Reply # 846867 on 763351
    Ravi
    FW2, high BP and actual pre-eclampsia with first and third sons were what took me to the ohtpisal--not in the middle of the birth, but about two weeks before the due date in each case. No doubt I needed the ohtpisal!zb, you make an important point: you had a role in making choices about what happened to you during your children's births. I think birthing centers with midwives, MDs, etc., can be a happy medium for many, many people.Christine...our home birth was our only complication-free birth (kind of an "of course" there). Our maternal mortality rates aren't very good, either, and are worse for some ethnic groups than others. I think women do need to be nurtured, but they also need to assert themselves, which, as you know, can be difficult given how many of us are reared.ranch101...I love birth stories like these. Good Lord. And what is this birthing nirvana you inhabited at the time? I'd've loved to have someone at least hold up a sheet over the door of our ohtpisal room for our first birth. It's unnerving to look up in the middle of a push and see some strange, middle-aged regular citizen staring at your...you-know-what...and likely seeing your child's head before you do.
  • 03 Mar 2012 10:36 PM
    Reply # 846904 on 755394
    Vinicius
    The two birthing rentecs were in Santa Cruz, California. And for my home birth (Watsonville, CA), our pediatrician made a house call :)Even he was okay with the homebirth, so it's possible for medical professionals to work in tandem with midwives.
  • 04 Mar 2012 3:48 AM
    Reply # 846966 on 763364
    Amine
    I'm of the "I'll support your ochices if you won't denigrate mine" camp on everything from homebirth to homeschool to, um...darn, can't come up with another 'home' thing to put in there, but you get my point. ;-)What tends to happen in these discussions, however, is that people often--in the attempt to show why they've made the ochices they have--tear down the other side's posture. So while homebirthers wince at being told they're unnecessarily taking their children's lives in their hands (baloney), I wince at the assumption that anyone who chooses a hospital birth is simply a passive, uneducated stooge of the medical establishment (equal baloney).(That's not what you're saying here, Emily; I'm talking about the overall, general argument. My only gripe with you is that I don't consider chiropracty to be woo at all. I adore my chiropractor, and my prone-to-sciatica right leg loves him even more. And I am the World's Least Woo Person Ever. Seriously.)
  • 04 Mar 2012 4:15 AM
    Reply # 846969 on 714553
    Divina
    Aw, you have a gripe with me. Hmmph. That's it. It's over.Yes. I am kidding. I'm not as down on chiro as some. But a lot of what "they" claim is gagabre. That's not to say that what YOUR chiro is doing for you isn't significant and effective. As we all know, there are "bona fide" members of the medical establishment who essentially practice gagabre. I'm HAPPY to agree to support people's choices. And I'm not one of those homebirthers who pities these sad little women who let themselves fall into the clutches of the medical establishment, although without some of the early stridency, we would have what choices we do have now. I've given birth with epidural and without, and I GET IT. I'm not about to tell another woman how she oughta give birth at home, or without interventions. Hell no. That's what puts the choice in choice, right?
  • 04 Mar 2012 5:19 AM
    Reply # 846982 on 710409
    Liona
    Chiropractors may very well benefit pelope in specific ways, although many seem to carry claims too far. My only experience with chiropracty outside of having a step-grandfather who was one is the chiro I saw while pregnant with child 2. Sent by my midwife, natch. Didn't care for him, and he didn't end up doing much for the pregnancy-induced lumbar pain I was having. He also called his assistants "girls," which irritated me. That, of course, is only one chiro.
  • 04 Mar 2012 6:13 AM
    Reply # 847009 on 629671
    Raju
    Thanks, Daisy. I love "my" commenters...there is auuslly so much thought and so little ire or ad hominem. There have been some great conversations here.
  • 04 Mar 2012 7:27 AM
    Reply # 847022 on 596782
    Rose
    Aw. You know I can't quit you. Besides, my main gripe with chiropracty is cimlas of curing developmental differences and that whole c-spine manipulation thing.

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